Are our society's values deteriorating ? (Stockton)

Are our society's values deteriorating ?

The only values held by society are pleasure and instant gratification. People no longer care about how their interactions with others effect the outside world. Today, everything is about instant gratification and pleasure. I can do whatever I want to anyone, but they dare not do it back to me. I can close the door in someone's face, push them aside in annoyance, or publicly humiliate them. Anything that gives me a shot of pleasure is acceptable - because I am the exception. This mentality is being fed by social media. People are given the perfect place to totally immerse themselves in themselves - if you wanted to you could literally spend all day everyday for the rest of your life looking at nothing but pictures of yourself, and doing nothing but talking about yourself. None of your 5,000 "friends" will say anything, because it would by hypocritical of them.
Unknowing youth. I would say that about a rough 75% of children who grow up in America and were born past the year 2008 will never know what true virtue is. Virtue has decayed over the past years due to mass media. Things are not made with quality like they used to be, and almost everything done is for money. People now are putting less heart into their work and more greed. The children who grow up around these lack of virtues will never know true virtues at all.
We are becoming an unruly society We are in a role reversed society. More and more kids are defining the boundaries rather than parents teaching core values, family customs, and patriotism. There is little to no discipline for poor behavior. The word "excuse" has replaced "accountability". Rarely do you see a kid hold a door for someone, say hello, or even hang up the phone when talking to you. They EXPECT everything the world can offer them rather than see what they can offer the world. The more disrespectful people get, the quicker it spreads to others. Not trying to sound like doom and gloom but that's what I observe on a daily basis. It used to be rare and now it is norm. One can only imagine how unruly this society will actually get before the trend reverses again.
Yes, television network programming. I can blame many networks but the one that I'd like to point out is MTV it's a prime example of where our values lie. People think it’s just entertainment but it does something to your mind when you watch it. It screws you up, makes shocking things less shocking. So normal life becomes boring ad people need to act out.
Definitely, we just have to take a look at our uprising generation. This generation knows not what respect is, they don't respect themselves nor others. Majority are not disciplined and have little to no idea of what their morals and values should be. Their mind is empty, we live in a society where we see kids disrespecting elders and talk down to them, an action that would have gotten you your teeth knocked out of your mouth in my days. Kids aspire to be and admire celebrities such as Drake, Chief Kief, shows like Jersey Shore. All or most that only promote profanity, promotes kids to let their desire rule over them, to be guided by lust instead of having self-control. Saying that it’s okay to call women *itches or an African American men a *igger. Where the brand of your shirt is more important then the grade on your test. We see little girls using their bodies to call attention to themselves posting half-naked pictures on social sites and young boys who no longer know the role or definition of a gentleman. It's sad.
Yes, America has become an utterly depraved place. Jersey Shore, Honey Boo Boo, TLC, Chris Dorner being praised as the new Django, bombing foreign lands for oil and the media that cheers them on, the perversion of our history by liberals, the militarization of our society by conservatives, the vilification of Muslims by the right, and the vilification of whites by the left. Need I say more?
Deteriorating family values I see a decline in traditional family values; marriage between a man and woman; sense of responsibility regarding making it on your own; belief in God; pride in your country and your workmanship.
An alarming increase in out-of-wedlock births, particularly in the black community.
A decline of respect for public school teachers and people in positions of authority is eroding our great nation.
Too many people are dependent on the government, both local and federal for handouts.
After 5 Decades of witnessing Society Values I have to say that society's values are almost non existent today. There is little respect for people or property. Anyone over 35 or 40 years of age can tell you just by looking around. People don't stop at stop signs, don't let you out of your parking spot. Park their shopping cart in the middle of an isle and walk away leaving the isle blocked for everyone else. These things show that society is selfish and self centered where in years gone by people would be polite and caring about these things. Today it's all for one and one for one. To hell with everyone else.
Life Feels Harder Life is not as positive or as easy as it was 25 years ago. We are not improving on anything, just multiplying the "things" we all have to do just to survive. Too much information to sort through and respond to robs us of the enjoyment of work and our lives.
It's okay as long as you’re happy. It has become far too acceptable to be a loser in the U.S. It is okay to disrespect others, to be poor, to have children out of wedlock, to marry/divorce/and remarry so many times, in general mediocrity and failure is becoming far too acceptable. Our country is destroying itself by accepting these things as long as people are happy. A murderer is happy murdering people, but that doesn't make it right, A rapist is happy raping, but that doesn't make it right. Nobody wants to take responsibility for their actions, but they still want to do things that require responsibility. There are consequences to every action, and they should be thought through before going through with the actions. It starts with the children, a child born into an insecure home made up of married teen parents who will most likely divorce and start new families will most likely grow up in poverty where the decline of social values is rampant, and then accept these things as a way of life and create the same life for their children and project these atrocities onto the next generation
Society's values are simply evolving, not deteriorating. Old people, mostly, think that society's values are deteriorating, because they're used to how it used to be, back in the day. Each person's definition of values differs. Some people believe in slavery still, so, now that we frown upon that, it must be society's problem. Homosexuality is in the same situation. Slowly, people are changing their minds, because they fear what they don't understand. Once they understand something, it softens it and makes it easier to go along with.
I'd say that society's values are only changing, rather than deteriorating. Certain moral ideals have changed over time, but that does not necessarily mean that society is becoming more immoral. An obvious example of changing values would be the issue of sex before marriage. Abstinence until marriage used to be fairly popular, but it isn't practiced by many anymore. I just have trouble seeing how this makes society less "noble". It's simply a change that is indicative of open-mindedness and the freedom to make responsible decisions.
The society is evolving It is ok society has just involve from back in the day. We were depending on history why you are just in a empty space of air. We should be the ones that start figuring out our society's values . What is the point of following some old fashion history . Why don't we make our own society with the reality. Because no one knows the past so less use the future
Values will obviously change with generations.............. Even if we compare a teenager of the present decade with one of several decades before we would affirmatively find a huge difference but most people will say that the values of the teenager of the generation would be more but if everything is changing in this world right and everyone has to adapt. Therefore today teenagers are just adjusting to this modern world. And the people who are back minded and orthodox will keep on discouraging kids.
Change is constant Every generation feel that the next generation is changing and is becoming worst. What was right for my grandfather may be wrong for my father and may be ok for me. General behavior may change from generation to generation that's not deterioration. 'Trust & Transparency' are the two basic values of Society and are still practiced across families and society at large. Yes there will be many dishonest people but so long as majority are not cheating or committing fraud, the world is safe
This is simply evolution in progress. When you look at what was, and what we have now, what do you see? Some may say now that we have lack of faith, we're being too easy on what people can do. But if that's the case, look at 3,000 years ago. We're we even better then than in the 50's? Was that the pinnacle of all human life? With women as cleaning and cooking machines? Think about it.
Society values are deteriorating. Self-centered is the word I use for society today, especially the younger generation. They do what they want, don't respect their elders....These days it is more important to have branded clothes rather than having A on that mark card. Back in my time, it was all different .We knew the meaning of OBEY and RESPECT.
Nothing Important Anymore Society used to value things of great importance, but what do we even value anymore? I mean honestly, we value material things instead of morals. Although I'm young, I can see the changes that have evolved over time. The rates of deterioration are becoming alarmingly quick, however. We could fix this, but my guess? It's already too late.
We are a species with amnesia. . So often do generation X-ers and before forget how life was in their day. Baby boomers notoriously criticize their offspring for being "lazy, ungrateful, disrespectful, and in need of instant gratification", yet, forget about their own sexual, social, and political rebelliousness only a few decades ago. As for young people today, we are accustomed to instant gratification because it's finally possible. Forever gone are the days where one would have to look up a word's definition in a paper dictionary, or visit a physical bank to know the status of your account, or wander bars, clubs, and streets in the endless hope of finding a date. Now, it can all be done instantly; why shouldn't it be? We're not naïve to the fact that a goal combined with hard work and diligence gets you a better shot at success. Nor do we think that having zero social skills is a ticket to meeting friends and forming relationships. As every other comment here states, society is evolving - not changing. And human nature will always stay the same. The question now comes down to you: Will you evolve? Or will you continue to reminisce about the "good ole' days" while slowly making yourself less productive, less useful, and more obsolete to our rapidly expanding society ?.....
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